Your photos are gorgeous!
As a fellow bird lover I share your fears. I try to make sure I plant native plants in my yard that provide food and nesting materials. I keep my feeders and birdbaths clean and full. I leave brush piles for cover and protection. Loss of habitat is a dire threat, but there is a lot we can do to create a safe haven for birds in our own yards and gardens. Not using chemicals to kill caterpillars and bugs they depend on to feed their young. Yes, keeping our cats indoors. And educating others of the benefits and joy of having birds in our lives.
I lost my mom last year and every time I see or hear a pileated woodpecker I know she is near. Fortunately our woods are full of them. I’m wishing you great comfort as you navigate your tremendous loss. ❤️