Erika - My heart is broken for you. Not only have you suffered the horrific loss of your beloved kitty (who looks a lot like my girl Sassy) but you have been betrayed in the most egregious way by someone you trusted. So much grief to process! I wish I could put my arms around you right now. I hope you will find a way to get restitution from this person who abused your friendship. Mostly I pray you will find healing and peace. ♥