Oof. My hair is a worry, too. I’m not sure I have ever loved a haircut I’ve gotten. I have let it grow long because we have moved and I have avoided finding a new hairdresser. It’s time, though and I am actually thinking of getting it cut short. I used to always wear it short but it’s been between shoulder length and down my back for 15 years now. I think I’m afraid to change it!
I hope you find a good hairdresser who will make you feel fabulous when you walk out the door.